In my work I often am approached by single people with statements like, "I'm having so much agony with one thing about being alone... I just want to be held. Why do I crave being held so much? Does anyone feel this as strongly as I do?"
These people preface this statement with the fact that they're not looking for a relationship, but miss that simple human contact of being held for an extended period of time and nothing more. Over the years in my interactions with other masters, I have heard different theories about this like:
- You don't need anyone else and that you are already whole, so accept it move on.
- You must find peace within yourself
- Wanting to be held is some problem and you should seek professional help.
So if you are experiencing this feeling, then I am glad you found this article today. You are normal and deserve that touch you miss. I think it's sad that we're living in such a technical society where our interactions, evening dating, are mostly limited to electronic means. With so little actual human interaction, no wonder why more people crave touch.
The good thing about my time in Sedona is that I learned how to provide those long heart hugs, the ones that last over a minute without any feelings of awkwardness. And they are freely provided to all. I start out my sessions with these long heart hugs and ensure that all feel that love, touch and connection that they may be lacking.
Wishing you a day filled with love,