Integrity is not...

Integrity is defined as having good honor, being honest and having a strong sense of what is right and wrong. today's article goes a little deeper into describing what integrity is not.  

Integrity is not....

• Lying about your past experiences and expertise to make yourself look better in their eyes.
• Manipulating people by telling them what you think that they want to hear or feeding their egos to get something you want.
• Praying on people's weaknesses to meet your own need of superiority
• Creating drama by pitting people against each other as your smoke screen.
• Withholding key information until you've won someone over by fueling their desires.
• Making promises you have no intention of keeping and waiting until they've signed on the bottom line before revealing the fine print.
• Deflecting and discrediting others by shouting from the highest mountain that the offenses that you are guilty of are the offenses of those innocent parties caught in your crossfire.

I often get asked what is a gaslighter, so the above is the definition of a gaslighter. 
Being honest is a direct line to being love. 

My Book Smudging for Beginners (Amazon)

LeeZa Donatella

Links of items I enjoy, that you may find useful 

Berkey Water Filter  The only filter I've found that removes fluoride from drinking water. We filter fluoride from our drinking water to decalcify our pineal gland to connect to increase our spiritual awareness. (article on the Pineal Gland)

Spiritual Guide Incense I love this incense that gets me into the zone. 

Great Meditation Music

Comfortable Meditation Pillow
Essential Oil Candles 

Chakra and Healing Stones

My Books Available on Amazon

Other authors books that have helped me on my journey.

The Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz

The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield

The Essential Rumi  by Jalal al-Din Rumi

Carlos Castaneda's books

Leeza Donatella is an author, speaker and teacher

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The Trifecta, your Sun, Moon and Rising signs

It’s not uncommon to be confused about the significance of the influence of the aspects of your sun, moon, rising and planets that comprise your natal chart.  The placement of the planets is determined based and the position of the earth in relation to the sun at the exact moment and location of your birth.

Your Sun

Your sun rules how you express yourself, the center of who you are. Most of us are familiar with the 12 zodiac signs and their corresponding months, like Pisces, from February 19 through March 20. I’m a fan of Susan Miller who has fantastic extended monthly horoscopes at Astrologyzone if you want to read yours.   

Lemons to Lemonade

Some people believe that all setbacks are catastrophic. Me, not so much, knowing that each experience is a gift that does one of three things:

1. Validates how delicious life is.
2. Shows us where our homework is.
3. Helps us realize how strong we are.

Words can Hurt or Heal

Our reaction to what we say or the words that are spoken to us can have such power over us if we let them. That’s because negative words can hurt, biting into the very fabric of who we are. Positive words have the power to heal, feed the soul and uplift the recipient.

It is these words that alter existence and change the framework of our lives. I remember a situation many years ago when my girlfriend Eileen and I ventured off into Manhattan and were sitting in a small cafe having an espresso. I could overhear the conversation at another table where an agent was telling a young filmmaker that he should "throw in the towel." The agent’s words were harsh and the recipient looked miserable. When the agent left, I excused myself, went over and whispered a few words into the filmmaker’s ear, then returned to my table. words have the power to heal.