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Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Why I would like to Know you More



I have meet so many people over the years and my share of dates and my tastes have changed for friends as well as partners. My last long term partner was stuck in the illusion of the dream; the big house, 4 cars, many vacations, lots of toys and yet it was never enough for him. He didn't understand about following his passion and compensated by abusing substances to dull the pain of the joyless existence he created by living in lack. You see when you have enough money to buy whatever you want you either realize "enough" then calm down or continue to live in "lack" which keeps you in a state that nothing will ever be enough. 
If you live in the illusion and don't understand why we need to follow our excitement and passion it only perpetuates a life of misery. Life is too short to continue down a joyless path. I walked away from this relationship a little over 2 years ago, leaving all the toys of that illusionary life behind in search of self discovery and a desire to serve people. It lead me to volunteer opportunities from 2013 through 2014 in Mexico and Brazil. Today, I don't have much money but I'm happy in the service of others and the opportunity to share what I know with all of you.
So the next time you meet someone who tickles your heart or your mind, whether it be a potential new friend or possibly a partner, instead of looking at what they drive, where they live or what they do for a living, why not ask them if they are kind to all living creatures? Look into their eyes and see if the sparkle telling you that they gaze at you through their heart.  Find out their character and if they're honest as the day is long. Do they smile and laugh often?  Are they following their excitement and passion to the best of their ability every day? Has the veil of the 2 by 2 illusion fallen for them?  If you can find a friend or partner with these qualities then you are truly blessed and most likely they already know what enough is. 

This is the new paradigm that we are living in and I choose to surround myself with those who live each and every moment in joy, not fear based emotions.
Have a day filled with Love,
LeeZa Donatella
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2 comments:

  1. Nicely written, this is what I felt when I met you in Brazil... kind of "best things in life are for free" experience. Wish you a beautiful day! Joran

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    1. Hi Joran

      Seems like yesterday when we were all at Fruttis. I hope all is well in Santa Ursula. I am honored to call you my friend. Sending you blessings and love for a beautiful week.

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